这标题还来的有些奇怪吧。
很多时候我们总说爱要爱得理智，但想想爱情好像都来的不理智。
对，如果在爱情里放了过多的理智，那还是爱（感情）吗？
这对白是昨日与一位友人谈起的，她属于理智十足的女生，但她也认了在爱情里，理智不存在呀，前阵子，她也为了接受或不接受一位男生而烦恼了，过阵子，她终于接受了，每回看见谈了恋爱的她，没有一次是没有笑容的，可想而知这就是所谓的爱情的魔力啊~
冥冥中，就不知道到底你会和他在一起的到底是谁？
往往你觉得是他，但到最后他不是你的；你从未想过的却在你身旁。
总会问，“对的人”在哪？“对的人”几时会出现？ “对的人”到底是谁？ 那到底“对的人”是什么样子的咧？
想要有人陪伴时，是训练自己独立的最佳时机吧。
有时啊，想了想，打回原点，为何兜了那么大圈想那么多， 想着那个“对的人”会出现吗？
也该相信缘分的存在吧。。。什么时候会出现，天自安排呀。
把自己做好，该做的去做，想了也解决不了的，再想的确是浪费时间。
Sunday, July 17, 2016
Sunday, February 14, 2016
生活瓶颈，需要跨过！正能量，您快来！
如果我选择继续现在的工作那么我得要接受在家里的生活，需要改变当下的我。
如果我离开家里选择别的工作， 我又能真正克服了这个问提吗？
很多人告诉我， 我如果不去踏出一步， 问题是解决不了的。
大家都纷纷给了意见。选择在于自己，那我该选择一或二？
如何接受面对非常负面思维的父亲？继续迁就，他要什么就给他什么，他要怎样就给他怎样真的让自己十分压力。那么别去理会他的作为/想法，但，我越想不去理会他的感受却越会去在乎。 现在的他正在埋怨自己很可怜， 我很想跟他说， 不可以一直想自己可怜，因为一直这样想， 心想就会是成。但，另一方面， 如果我那么告诉他， 他却会说他连说话的权利都没有。我该如何是好？
如果我把输入的正能量能像听他的埋怨一样听了一直储存在心中，而相反的听了他的埋怨像现今输入的正能量一样像‘左耳进， 右耳出’不去储存，那该多好。
可他是怎么变都变不了，但为什么我一直要强逼他去改变？是我太执著了吗？
这样避一个六十几岁的人改变下去，我真的开心吗？
我必需要改变自己的想法， 我再这样下去最委屈最痛苦的究竟还是自己。
我需要放下许多东西,但，真正要放下并非真的要放就放，不理就不理。。。
真的希望快点跨过，跨过了就会好的。
Sunday, January 3, 2016
Challenges Always There
Today - 3rd day of brand new year.
Second time spend my time at company last for 15 hours. (voice from deep of my heart: i'm okay and well condition)
Brain thinking of : There are many things need to change, there are many decision waiting me to decide, there are still lots of challenges waiting me to handle.
Anyway, there are still somethings, i can't make any decision or should be not to make any decision.
I'm keeping try to protecting a family with my method but this is not suit for other members though?
I'm keeping silent to cold down myself, but my silent will hurt on someone?
I'm trying to make someone happy, but this will make others not happy?
I'm trying not to listen those bad stuffs yet i'm fail to be deaf?
I'm trying to dumb myself yet unable to mute it?
I'm lucky enough yet i'm not feeling gratitude enough? if you think so, you're definitely wrong.
Everyone have the past, if you think your past are much more pity than others, you envy of others, same stories and you try to exchange with others, no one will have a good life and so no one will have a really bad life after born. The god give you something, there will be grab something from you.
Tired enough, and seriously need a good rest and a real supporter!
Pray for luck, good luck to me! everything goes well very very soon...
Second time spend my time at company last for 15 hours. (voice from deep of my heart: i'm okay and well condition)
Brain thinking of : There are many things need to change, there are many decision waiting me to decide, there are still lots of challenges waiting me to handle.
Anyway, there are still somethings, i can't make any decision or should be not to make any decision.
I'm keeping try to protecting a family with my method but this is not suit for other members though?
I'm keeping silent to cold down myself, but my silent will hurt on someone?
I'm trying to make someone happy, but this will make others not happy?
I'm trying not to listen those bad stuffs yet i'm fail to be deaf?
I'm trying to dumb myself yet unable to mute it?
I'm lucky enough yet i'm not feeling gratitude enough? if you think so, you're definitely wrong.
Everyone have the past, if you think your past are much more pity than others, you envy of others, same stories and you try to exchange with others, no one will have a good life and so no one will have a really bad life after born. The god give you something, there will be grab something from you.
Tired enough, and seriously need a good rest and a real supporter!
Pray for luck, good luck to me! everything goes well very very soon...
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